At MARA, we aim to provide a platform for groups and individuals from diverse backgrounds to address the systemic barriers to abortion rights and access in the Mediterranean. We hold that abortion is essential healthcare and a fundamental human right.

“You have to give up white bread, ma’am,” a nutritionist said to me as she added her final notes to the diet I’m supposed to follow to drop the five kilograms that have piled up around my stomach and hips as inevitable punishment.

All of the battles I fought led me to serious self-reflection. When I delved into the heart of these issues, I figured out that my past self was always aiming to please others, even at my own expense. The society we live in imposes certain beauty and body standards on women, and if we stray from these standards, we have to endure looks, insults, and unsolicited advice…

As residents of cities that are relatively calmer by virtue of the rules of engagement and our geographical locations far from the battlefields, are we really still living, are we really surviving? Is this what security looks like? When the numbers of dead, injured, and displaced reach this red line indicating the loss of humanity, the loss of a voice, and an impotence that is regional, international, and individual, spectators become condemned to daily death.

What do you do when you find yourself immersed in a world that has already set rigid expectations for you and is forcing you to be a crowd follower with total disregard for your personal beliefs? Do you revolt against a suffocating system that blocks you from being your authentic self or do you just conform and sit still, taking it in silence?

What you brush off as “sulking” we see as lost rights, and the exaggeration you accuse us of is just a description of reality. No one knows the full extent of what every woman on this planet goes through.

More than a hundred years after Susan Anthony’s death, a woman riding a bicycle is still something shameful. Women who cycle are even accused of wanting to show themselves off and draw attention by highlighting their charms. These are further attempts to tighten control over women’s lives, their private choices, and their simple desires.

No matter how old you are and how far you get in life, you are forced to repeat time and again that being single in your 30s or 40s is not a shortfall or a weakness. It does not mean that no one chose you. It simply means that you are the captain of your own ship…